Therapy for Men

Being a man in this culture is full of contradictions.

Men are supposed to take the initiative in creating romance but risk offending at every turn. As men, we should be providers, lovers, caretakers, and protectors but must not step on anyone’s toes.

Being strong and independent is essential to a man, but he also must be open to others’ ideas about how to live. We are supposed to be loving fathers but have few parental rights and no reproductive rights.

Men should be attentive to the feelings of others while remaining stoic and disconnected from their own emotions.

Where do your values fit in?

You’ve tried some things that don’t work.

Numbing yourself every night with booze or porn (women don’t want that!).

Giving in to end an argument only worsens things in the long run, and apologizing for winning it eats at your soul, doesn’t it?

Seeking help from female friends only sometimes helps. For instance, you ask a female friend how to show up on a date, and they have no idea how to court a woman. If you ask for advice about your relationship with your partner, it signals that you must be having an emotional affair. Right?

Confiding in your male friends suddenly makes you realize they’re in the same sinking boat!

It’s time to try something new.

It’s happening again.

If you’re here, you probably wonder why your relationship isn’t working out again. It’s so confusing! You think you’ve given her everything she wants, but she’s still unhappy. What happened to the passion and fun?

You may have even heard someone say, “You need therapy!”

It’s time to break out of this boom-bust relationship cycle. I’ll teach you mindfulness, conflict negotiation, emotional regulation, and communication skills to turn things around in your relationship or prepare you for the next.

I’ll also employ Socratic questioning and apply evolutionary psychology principles to explore your relationship patterns.

Let’s get to the underlying assumptions that keep you stuck.

Learn to stand and take ownership of your value.

Our work together can be uncomfortable, but it’s necessary to discover the abundance of resources inside you that will lead you to a deeply connected life. There may be ups and downs, but you can make positive changes.

Most of the answers for returning to your fun-loving, passionate life are inside you. We need to work together to get them out! And I’ll be with you every step of the way.

I have helped dozens of men change their relationships for the better. Whether you are trying to find the right kind of woman, mending an ailing relationship, or ending a broken one, I’ve helped men like you get a new lease on life.

Life’s path can be challenging, but you can walk it with others. It’s easy to get started. Call me, and we’ll schedule your free 15-minute consultation: (509) 220-1564.